Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Mungkin Tak Perlu Title

Aku ternampak la ade sorg kwn aku ni like group "Wanita melayu islam jangan pakai legging di tempat awam". I'm not here to talk about agama coz kte sebg Islam clearly knows kte mmg kne tutop aurat. So there is no need to debate about that.

But I am curious what is the point of making such page?I see the point if you make pages mcm "Kami suka perempuan tutop aurat" or maybe "Kami suka perempuan pakai jubah"?. You know pages yg menunjukkan ape yg korg suka. Even someone yg x tutop aurat mcm aku ni pn tgk pages cmni rs sejuk hati. Kira x rs marah ke pape la. A good kind of feeling.

Tp pages yg menunjukkan ape yg korg x suke mcm page yg aku ckp kt atas, membuatkn perempuan2 jenis mcm tu akan jauh dr korg. Seblom ni korg kenal ckp 'Hi' semua (kira ade la peluang maybe nk berdakwah ke kn?). Tp bile die tgk korg like page mcm tu. Bukannye die xkn pakai legging da. Bile die jumpe korg pasni ntah2 die buat bodo je sbb die pk, dh ko x suka aku kn?

What i am trying to convey is, its better for u to say what u like rather than saying what u don't like.

Mcm kalao one day kte nampak kwn kte yg x pnah pkai tudung tibe2 pakai tudung utk g one majlis kn. Its better to say "eee ko nampak cantik pakai tudung" rather than "ha kn bagos pakai tudung. selame ni x pakai ntah pape je. x elok langsong".

Even kalao one day isteri kte msk pn. Tibe2 1 hari die msk x sedap. Baik ckp "Eh sy suka awk msk mcm hari tu. sedap!" dr ckp "Eh ape awk msk ni. X sedap!" The result will be the same. Si isteri kn msk sedap lepas tu tp the way u say it is important. Not to hurt someone or push that someone away.

Ble da tolak org tu jauh2, mcm mn la kn nk berdakwah?jgn pk org tu yg lari, maybe secara x sedar anda yg tolak org tu jauh2?tunjuk sgt yg ko x suke, tu yg org tu menjauhkn diri.

so again, i dont see the point of making a page like that then mengutuk2 org dlm page tu. Its better to join yg kami suke perempuan tutup aurat tu and say nice things about perempuan tutup aurat rather than kutuk2 yg x tutup aurat. You are saying perempuan pakai legging ikotkn sgt budaya barat. Korg main facebook tu bukan budaya barat?Ikotkn sgt budaya FB sampai sanggop buat page kutuk2 org instead of going to the real world and berdakwah kt org2 tu secara baik. Yg laki2 x suka pmpuan ikot budaya barat. Korg pakai jersey ada lambang mcm2 tu ape pulak?

Again, better to say something nice rather than something that might hurt people.

4 comments:

Isumaru said...

i totally agree!

sejak bila kwn aku xbimbo sgt ni??

Hayfa Amira said...

minggu ni x tgk antm..kurang sket bimbo!

p/s: hint suruh send antm..hahahaha

anip muQsit said...

yup, mmg la....
group2 yg diorang wat tu pun
sebahagian tuk berdakwah..
mmg la akan ada yg terasa, yg terasa tu nper pegi bka aurat?

Hayfa Amira said...

this post is not to debate about aurat. its about which one is the better way to express something.

harap tafsir dgn cara btol ye post ni, dik :)