Helo!As you can see I'm not really a blogger at home. I notice that I blog a lot when I have tons of work!and when I'm free (I mean really really free) I tend to forget that I even have a blog!
For this post, I'm writing about friends!"What kind of friend are you?"
There are many kinds of humans!and so are so called friends. Sometimes you need to stop from whatever it is you are doing and think about your friendship and perhaps just evaluate yourself. Put yourself in your friend(s) shoes and ask yourself..do i like me?
There are friends who are really trustworthy. We tell them our big secrets and they keep them. This is definitely the type of friend we want and want to be!And of course the opposite of this criteria. The friend who has big mouth!Run away from them!
There are also friends who are so competitive with you. They want everything you have!To make things worse, they become an arrogant person towards you. Oh you know the kind of friend who keep reminding you of how rich they are!~Pppfffttt~You may want to run from this kind as well. To evaluate yourself whether you are this kind of friend, try to think have you ever told your friend of how expensive your clothes are?of how your family don't dine in normal restaurant, only in hotels?of you don't buy cheap stuffs?well, you may think its ok but again put yourself in your friend shoes ok?kinda irritating kn?
There are friends who are like chipsmore!haha i think i belong to this group. :P
They will pop up once in a while. especially during holidays!Well we can't help it!We are busy with our student's life!heee do forgive us.
Ok now to be honest I don't really have a list of types of friend. I'm kinda focusing on the second type. About being arrogant. Well try to avoid being this kind of friend. This is not based on my experience. From my friend's actually. I pity her. Because they are actually good friends but this kind of thing can really destroy years of friendship. Sometimes you don't really notice you are doing it. The key is just don't talk about money especially when you have a lot of money. You can talk about you are lack of money but you absolutely do not talk about you have a lot of money and you like to buy expensive things with them!If you are doing it even when you are not yet working, its gonna get worse when you are working!More money more attitude people. Well enough said, I hope this post can really make you stop and think, what kind of friend am i? (although i don't really list them!haha)
For this post, I'm writing about friends!"What kind of friend are you?"
There are many kinds of humans!and so are so called friends. Sometimes you need to stop from whatever it is you are doing and think about your friendship and perhaps just evaluate yourself. Put yourself in your friend(s) shoes and ask yourself..do i like me?
There are friends who are really trustworthy. We tell them our big secrets and they keep them. This is definitely the type of friend we want and want to be!And of course the opposite of this criteria. The friend who has big mouth!Run away from them!
There are also friends who are so competitive with you. They want everything you have!To make things worse, they become an arrogant person towards you. Oh you know the kind of friend who keep reminding you of how rich they are!~Pppfffttt~You may want to run from this kind as well. To evaluate yourself whether you are this kind of friend, try to think have you ever told your friend of how expensive your clothes are?of how your family don't dine in normal restaurant, only in hotels?of you don't buy cheap stuffs?well, you may think its ok but again put yourself in your friend shoes ok?kinda irritating kn?
There are friends who are like chipsmore!haha i think i belong to this group. :P
They will pop up once in a while. especially during holidays!Well we can't help it!We are busy with our student's life!heee do forgive us.
Ok now to be honest I don't really have a list of types of friend. I'm kinda focusing on the second type. About being arrogant. Well try to avoid being this kind of friend. This is not based on my experience. From my friend's actually. I pity her. Because they are actually good friends but this kind of thing can really destroy years of friendship. Sometimes you don't really notice you are doing it. The key is just don't talk about money especially when you have a lot of money. You can talk about you are lack of money but you absolutely do not talk about you have a lot of money and you like to buy expensive things with them!If you are doing it even when you are not yet working, its gonna get worse when you are working!More money more attitude people. Well enough said, I hope this post can really make you stop and think, what kind of friend am i? (although i don't really list them!haha)
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